Blow Me a KiiSS iiF yhu think LOVE exists....Love does not exist. Love is merely the anticipation of the inevitability of pain. When you tell someone "I love you," the statement you're really conveying is vulnerability. You're actually saying, "You could hurt me if you wanted to," you're just expressing you're own insecurity and blind fear that the other party does not value you as much as you value them. True love is nothing more than trust. Love does not exist without trust and vice versa...so if you've ever told someone you love him or her and still not trusted him or her, then there is no real love there. It is only you repeating a traditional statement you've heard all your life and feel an obligation to say. This is why teen relationships (for the most part) never work out. Teenagers aren't usually mature enough to trust someone fully. The few who do trust someone never seek a romantic relationship with them because it would only complicate and possibly remove that trust. The relationship becomes more physical than mental...having to live up to society's standards of a loving relationship. This is why girls always fall for the wrong guy. The Right Guys are too attainable and too trusted, girls for the most part need the pain of the false love of another guy to drive them to "one of the good ones." Love isn't made of pixie dust that the tooth fairy sprinkles on you at night. Love isn't fat midget who flies around looking for you, cause its destined that everyone will find someone. This is the great lie that were are trained to believe. If you want "love", you need to get out there and work for it. And when you find love it's not a cure all for all life's problems. When a woman who get the beat up by her boyfriend/ husband and still say "but I love him." This is a clear sign of person still believing in the lie.
-Kendra Thomas
Preach Sista!
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